Open Plan

Feb. 1st, 2019 08:26 am
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Any plans for this weekend?

Perhaps you have a mini-vacation planned, or have major events to attend, weddings, Bar or Bat Mitzvahs, confirmations, a quinceanera.

Or maybe you have tickets to a game, a musical production or a play.

If you are a religious person you may spend Friday or Saturday or Sunday in prayer and learning, have special meals and guests.

Perhaps you have a list of jobs that you need to conquer before the weekend flees and you are back to your daily grind.

Possibly the only thing on your list is "chill". Maybe you'll catch up on your favorite show, or read a book, or hang with friends, or sleep in. You have no definite plans.

There may be a compilation of the above. 

If you were asked "what did you do all weekend" what would your answer be? 

If you find yourself going "nothing really" and wondering where your weekend went, you need to spend more time developing your "7 Acts - Great Day" field to give shape to the day. 

As explained earlier, the 7 acts aren't tasks. They may include tasks, but they also include such things as "eat breakfast" or "start that new book" or "long walk in country". 

7 Acts - Great Day, along with the daily focus, helps make a weekend of memories, not a weekend that slides into and merges with a string of weekends that came before.  It gives shape and color to your day, and deepens your appreciation for even a day full of "just chilled".


 

 

Great Day

Dec. 30th, 2018 08:10 am
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 Several years ago I read about a man who had depression. In order to combat his negative feelings he would write down five things that would make the day a "diamond day". 

I've incorporated this idea into my regular journalling, though I have changed the concept somewhat.

I call the section "7 acts". These are seven acts that I do throughout the day that makes the day great, for me.

I write them down the day before, each on their own line, with a small square next to them that indicates their category. 

These are acts, not tasks, as I include such things as having a chocolate bar or watching a program on television. Moreover, by calling them ACTS I take away from the idea that these are chores or tasks I need somehow to get through. These daily accomplishments I want to complete.

There are categories and they are: physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, custom (habit), defer (procrastinate),self, other, work, fun.

I try to hit each category at least once during the week. 

I think these are mostly explanatory save perhaps custom, which is when I am working on a new habit, and that is entered daily until the habit is established, and defer, which is something I have been putting off that I need to get done. Self and other, are doing things for me specifically and no one else. Other is what I do for something else. I've developed codes for different acts that are commonly do. Acts can be simple or complex, and range from "dishes" to "finish project". 

As I go through my day I check off each item I have done.

As these are not tasks I also keep, along with my journal, I lists of tasks on a simple piece of paper that I can take with me if I need to go somewhere. I also have a task notebook that I keep in my purse, as well as a memory notebook, when I can't access my journal. 

In addition, in my journal, I write a daily goal, which is where my focus will be. Clean up after Shabbat, establish reading list for next few days, focus on eating habits. It is where I want the thrust of my attention that day to be. 

These three things helps me to stay on my life-course, allowing me to wander without getting lost. They are my compass in life. 

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